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[外语] 在家学英语是场马拉松

在家学英语是场马拉松

昨天发贴在ENGLISH CORNER,发现讨论的BBMM很少,应该是没发对地方,重新来过:)
欢迎大家一起讨论,
我也是边摸索边自己教,
我们家小朋友语言天赋很一般,而且对外语有一点抵触情绪,大概是因为中文水平已经蛮好了;
要他开口讲另一种语言就会有压力。不过也是因人而已的,有些小朋友天生就很喜欢学语言~

Anyway, 要引导我们家的小子开口真不容易。
不过,如果可以成功让他在学习了一个阶段后慢慢能开口说说,也算是很有成就感的。

[ 本帖最后由 lxl2006 于 2010-4-16 11:04 编辑 ].

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My 3-year-old boy began to learn English with me this winter.

I haven't practised English for years since I quit my job.

I hope my boy could understand and speak some daily English after a period of study.

That's why I started this topic, to record and remind of myself.

Keep on moving from today on~~~.

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Jan.11-Jan.15

When we played together after dinner. I tried to say sth in English instead of Chinese.

"What's this?"
"This is a car"/"It's a car"

( I asked and answered by myself, and i thought he could understand)
Then I asked him to repeat :

"This is a car."
"This is a red car."
"I have a car."
"I have a red car."

(My boy thought this was a game and quite enjoyed repeating after me. But his attention was still on his car game, not English. That's okay~ I didn't intend to let him feel that he is learning sth.).

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Jan.11 - Jan.15

I planned to spend 10-15 mins everyday to talk with him only in English.

The next day we continued on talking about cars.

"I have a red car."
"I have a yellow car."
"I have two blue cars."
"I have two green cars."
"I have three white cars."
"I have three black cars."

(He has some basic idea about how to say color and number in English.).

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Jan 18 - Jan 22

He doesn't like to go to bed every night and always wants to play for more time.

So every night around 8, he will ask me "Is it time for bed?"

Then I told him you can say"Is it time for bed?"
"Yes, it's time for bed." I replied.

And these sentences have the same structure:

"Is it time to get up?"
"Yes, it's time to get up."

"It's time for breakfast."
"It's time to go to school.".

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Jan.18-22

When he wanted me to give a hand, I suggested him to say "Help me mum."
"Okay, let me help you."
"Thank you."
"You are welcome.".

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我们也试着在家教孩子英文,用得就是幼儿园活动整合课程的教材
我们两家的情况有点相似,就是孩子对英文没有太大兴趣,学个5分钟就说不想学了,我是想坚持一下自己教,如果效果实在是差,9月份开始送外面学

你们用什么教材呀?.

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原帖由 家有一小女 于 2010-1-19 10:14 发表 \"\"
我们也试着在家教孩子英文,用得就是幼儿园活动整合课程的教材
我们两家的情况有点相似,就是孩子对英文没有太大兴趣,学个5分钟就说不想学了,我是想坚持一下自己教,如果效果实在是差,9月份开始送外面学

你们 ...
我前阵子找过教材,但根据我对小子的了解,教材肯定是浪费的
所以,我暂时没有买教材。开了这个贴,就是把我自己觉得有用的对话整理整理,不然太零碎了,没系统.

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Jan.18-22

When he is back from school,
I will ask him,
"Are you hungry?"
"Yes, I'm hungry."
"What do you want?"
"Cookies. / Candy. / Milk. / Snack"
"Here you are."
"Thanks.".

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对于还无法进入学习状态的小朋友,我个人觉得千万不能让他觉得我这是在教你什么;
大人的功课就是得让学的过程退化成玩,当他没意识到这是在学,就没了防御,反而就比较配合。.

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这么说来,可能我太死板了,孩子的兴趣不大的说.

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  学习!.

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我们家小孩也是三岁前后特别不喜欢英语,一给读英语书就大叫:读中文!吓得我一直不敢再提供英语的东西,怕他恨上英语。.

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我家的似乎也有点抵触,但是自己自言自语的时候确会不知不觉得唱学过的英语儿歌。。。。.

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Sorry , I only can input English . Exactly same as my boy , he is more than 3 years, recently I try to taught him some english and some english letters , but he rejected always. I alsi try to speak some english words and sentence to him, boy always said: NO,Don't speak english ,I want to listen to story in Chinese . How can we do ? so I stopped now ,. Maybe go to some english- education school to learn ? Confused......

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Good topic, I like it!  here are the topics  with my son last night
"What is your name"
--"I am Hector."
--"My name is Hector."

How old are you,  " I am five"

He will ask me the same question,
How old are you , mama?  " I am 32"

"Hi, Hector, what do you like, icecream, apple or all food"
"I like iceceam!"

But my son is older than yours, more than 5 years old. in the kindergarden, they have interesting classes for English course, Currently I just study with together for their books/tapes from kindergarden. I hope that the boy could keep the interest in English, instead of a task from parents/teachers..

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My daughter is more than 3 year old and she is very insterested to English. But I don't want to let her learn it so much since i think language will not be a great problem for the kids in future especially in Shanghai which is an international city. For a Chinese girl ,she has much thing to learn presently more than English..

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原帖由 胡豆妈 于 2010-1-19 12:19 发表 \"\"
我们家小孩也是三岁前后特别不喜欢英语,一给读英语书就大叫:读中文!吓得我一直不敢再提供英语的东西,怕他恨上英语。
我觉得是他们3岁以后中文进步迅速的原因,无论是思维还是表达,已经完全可以很好运用母语了。
我儿子1-2岁,看DVD无所谓是英文和中文都喜欢;3岁以后,一放DVD,自己先把音频调整为中文,并且要把字幕也转换为中文。

他也经常提醒我,妈妈我喜欢说中文,我不喜欢说英文。.

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原帖由 elvera 于 2010-1-19 12:40 发表 \"\"
我家的似乎也有点抵触,但是自己自言自语的时候确会不知不觉得唱学过的英语儿歌。。。。
英语儿歌和歌曲都是很好的入门题材,我儿子喜欢看网站上的FLASH英语歌曲
不过断断续续地只会2首,london bridge falling down & twinkle twinkle little star...
其他的要会要求我唱,8古我唱不完整,MS现在记忆力越来越差了。.

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回复 18#lxl2006 的帖子

你说得没错,三岁的小孩母语已经突破基本听说,吸收和运用母语的能力在突飞猛进中,对母语信息特别有兴趣,对不明所以的外语不感兴趣,所以要学外语最好的环境就是生下来就进行双语养育。不过作为单一语言家庭,要做这件事太辛苦啦。

我比较懒,既然错过了第一波好时机,就干脆不管了。

好在学英语的视听材料都比较丰富又有趣,今后学英语应该也还是方便的。

[ 本帖最后由 胡豆妈 于 2010-1-19 15:04 编辑 ].

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原帖由 土豆的妈妈 于 2010-1-19 12:45 发表 \"\"
Sorry , I only can input English . Exactly same as my boy , he is more than 3 years, recently I try to taught him some english and some english letters , but he rejected always. I alsi try to speak so ...
Absolutely the same!

所以,我是非常羡慕那些很有学外语兴趣的小朋友的BBMM.
我之前考虑过培训机构的,去试听过的,他没表现出喜欢,另外在那样的班级里仍然是感兴趣的孩子得到的机会更多,人家愿意说呀~

我儿子现在3岁5个月,他整3岁之前我就想教的,由于他抵触,我也很受打击,渐渐就不和他说英文了。
最近,我觉得可能是之前自己的方法有点问题,另外,也不可以因为他1天不喜欢我就不去尝试。
好比有的小朋友不喜欢吃番茄,但如果我们经常问问他要不要吃,或者大人吃得很开心,没准哪天他也喜欢吃啦。。。嘿嘿.

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原帖由 小熊大宝 于 2010-1-19 13:39 发表 \"\"
Good topic, I like it!  here are the topics  with my son last night
"What is your name"
--"I am Hector."
--"My name is Hector."

How old are you,  " I am five"

He will ask me the same questio ...
Thanks for your sharing with us.

My son goes to the public kindergarten, quite famous in our district, but the kids won't learn English in class. Because of the educational reform, their teachers won't teach anything about Math or English.

Your son cooperates better than mine, how lucky you are!.

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原帖由 shelleywu 于 2010-1-19 14:02 发表 \"\"
My daughter is more than 3 year old and she is very insterested to English. But I don't want to let her learn it so much since i think language will not be a great problem for the kids in future espec ...
Whatever our kids want to learn, "interest" is what we start from.
My son lacks interest in English. As you said, both Chinese and English will be their communicating language in future. I hope 10-15 mins English-time every day can build up some "interest"..

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原帖由 胡豆妈 于 2010-1-19 15:00 发表 \"\"
你说得没错,三岁的小孩母语已经突破基本听说,吸收和运用母语的能力在突飞猛进中,对母语信息特别有兴趣,对不明所以的外语不感兴趣,所以要学外语最好的环境就是生下来就进行双语养育。不过作为单一语言家庭,要做 ...
我也懒了好一阵子~

[ 本帖最后由 lxl2006 于 2010-1-19 15:29 编辑 ].

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这个我赞成,去机构费钱费时,而且本来 就没兴趣的,去了一看,人 家都比我强啊,更没兴趣了。还不如在家慢慢捂。吼吼。.

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Thanks for your discussion with me! Me too, my boy goes to public kidgarden near home. Firstly I just want him to spend happy childhood , whatever he learns in kidgarden. Yes, now he is happy, but public kidgarden does not teach anything , just some gams .
Anyway, agree with you , if he is not interested in Engligh by now , we have to make a long term schecule to let him to find feeling , to find confidence .....

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原帖由 lxl2006 于 2010-1-19 14:54 发表 \"\"


我觉得是他们3岁以后中文进步迅速的原因,无论是思维还是表达,已经完全可以很好运用母语了。
我儿子1-2岁,看DVD无所谓是英文和中文都喜欢;3岁以后,一放DVD,自己先把音频调整为中文,并且要把字幕也转换为中 ...
我觉得你说得有点道理
我儿子也这样的,以前无所谓语言版本的,现在要看情况了,有时候能接受给他放英文版的,但有时候会强调要看中文版的。最让我郁闷的是,前2天他和我说:“我是中国人,喜欢说中文, 不喜欢说英语的~~~” 感情小时候的英语碟片都白看了,没培养出什么兴趣么~~~.

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我家孩子9岁了。三岁时也不喜欢英语。我自己搞英语的,但是没有敢教她。后来送机构学了1年多,才自己教的。启蒙阶段找个活泼的外教还是有用的。因为自己属于比较一本正经教书的,对低龄的孩子不适合。.

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我也想教孩子的,可是每次和她一说,她便“@#¥&×”嘴里也念念有词的。 没辙!感觉环境还是很重要的。.

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原帖由 土豆的妈妈 于 2010-1-19 16:20 发表 \"\"
Thanks for your discussion with me! Me too, my boy goes to public kidgarden near home. Firstly I just want him to spend happy childhood , whatever he learns in kidgarden. Yes, now he is happy, but pub ...
Agree with you, happiness is the most important thing.
My son loves his class and his teach so much, that's enough..

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原帖由 elvera 于 2010-1-19 16:52 发表 \"\"


我觉得你说得有点道理
我儿子也这样的,以前无所谓语言版本的,现在要看情况了,有时候能接受给他放英文版的,但有时候会强调要看中文版的。最让我郁闷的是,前2天他和我说:“我是中国人,喜欢说中文, 不喜欢 ...
每次我儿子说他自己是中国人的时候,我都很像笑;觉得他们人虽小,还知道中国人应该说中文。
虽然我开了个学英文的帖,不过和很多BBMM一样,坚持学好中文是首要的。
估计再过些年老外都要学中文:).

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原帖由 ostrichbaby 于 2010-1-19 17:10 发表 \"\"
我家孩子9岁了。三岁时也不喜欢英语。我自己搞英语的,但是没有敢教她。后来送机构学了1年多,才自己教的。启蒙阶段找个活泼的外教还是有用的。因为自己属于比较一本正经教书的,对低龄的孩子不适合。
我的打算正好和你相反呵呵,等到他自己有兴趣了,我也无法满足他的求知欲时,就送到培训机构去~~.

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Jan.20

不错的猜谜小故事:

I'm really quite large,
from my head to my toes.
I have big, floppy ears and a very long nose.

What am I?


Answer: Elephant!.

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It's important to learn native language well first.
You can teach your child only if your English is perfect.
I'd like to read stories in English with my baby..

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回复 16#小熊大宝 的帖子

I often have the similar dialog with my son. We study in a demonstrative public kindergartern and he hasn't studied english outside of the school. I'm confident i can teach my kid english better than others as we're in a relaxed environment  and he doesn't have any pressure.

[ 本帖最后由 汉斯妈妈 于 2010-1-21 12:51 编辑 ].

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You are all great mothers. Thanks for sharing the experiences here!.

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I never speak English with my children and only ask them to watch English TV program.
The best way is to let them listen to standard spoken English via radio or TV.
When they can read, let them read English novels..

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Good topic!
我女儿也是3岁5个月,最近也在为她学习英语犯愁!
试听了很多培训机构,都觉得性价比不高!
希望LZ能继续更新下去。.

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我家小子快4周岁了,在幼儿园学英语,宝宝很喜欢学,非常感兴趣,平常都会问这个用英语怎么说,那个用英语怎说,我也在考虑是给他在外面专业机构系统学呢,还是继续在幼儿园这样学,回家再帮他复习,感觉宝宝正处在一个对外语非常敏感的时期,LZ妈妈给点好的建议,我也非常佩服你自己教宝宝的耐心,也希望继续看到更新.

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to the devoted moms.

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原帖由 lillainpcy 于 2010-1-21 10:15 发表 \"\"
Good topic!
我女儿也是3岁5个月,最近也在为她学习英语犯愁!
试听了很多培训机构,都觉得性价比不高!
希望LZ能继续更新下去。
去培训机构的时候一定要看看他们的教材,大概就能了解不同级别的班大致教多少内容.

现在的机构收费都比较高,平均下来通常120-180,还没算上咋们的人力和时间成本.

我会坚持更新的:).

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原帖由 haoyumama 于 2010-1-21 12:17 发表 \"\"
我家小子快4周岁了,在幼儿园学英语,宝宝很喜欢学,非常感兴趣,平常都会问这个用英语怎么说,那个用英语怎说,我也在考虑是给他在外面专业机构系统学呢,还是继续在幼儿园这样学,回家再帮他复习,感觉宝宝正处在一 ...
宝宝喜欢学是最开心的事情了,保持兴趣比啥都好~
其实幼儿园教的好,真是省力又省米呀,如果孩子觉得学有余力,你可以再给他补充点,嘿嘿.

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LZ妈妈,谢谢您
本人英语水平实在不敢跟你比,所以很是敬佩和羡慕你,请教一下有没有合适的教材我可以参考,既提高自己又能够教导小孩.

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原帖由 haoyumama 于 2010-1-22 10:01 发表 \"\"~
LZ妈妈,谢谢您
本人英语水平实在不敢跟你比,所以很是敬佩和羡慕你,请教一下有没有合适的教材我可以参考,既提高自己又能够教导小孩
大家互相学习, 你可以去找找YOU AND ME, 这个教材评价都还不错的,直接买DVD,淘宝上应该很多的
妈妈要和宝宝一起学的话,买教学DVD最好啦.

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在日常生活中,从简单单词和对话开始,和孩子说英语其实是比较有效果的。不要让他们认为家长是在教他们,而要让他们觉得这也是一种游戏,可以互动参与。
比如,学习颜色的单词时,可以先把各种颜色的英语单词和问答颜色的句型告诉孩子。然后平时和孩子一起玩或者带孩子外出时,可以随意指出某样东西问what color is it?
让孩子说出颜色,同样也可以让孩子来考你,让他问你来回答。这样的交流对英语的提高很有帮助。

只要不是一味的你问他答,孩子还是会接受的。我女儿就很喜欢这种方式。.

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回复 44#lxl2006 的帖子

LZ妈妈,谢谢,继续关注.

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学习.

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说的不错,学习学习.

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原帖由 婷婷妈2005 于 2010-1-22 21:39 发表 \"\"
在日常生活中,从简单单词和对话开始,和孩子说英语其实是比较有效果的。不要让他们认为家长是在教他们,而要让他们觉得这也是一种游戏,可以互动参与。
比如,学习颜色的单词时,可以先把各种颜色的英语单词和问答 ...
很赞同, 把学的过程转换为玩乐的过程是最有效的~


上周儿子感冒了,没上幼儿园, 上网时间很少,没怎么更新.

后半周天气暖和,我和他就经常在户外活动.

他要和我玩一个人发号指令,另一个人做动作的游戏, 正好这种机会最适合把嘴巴也一起用上,所以我说:

You say WALK. I will walk.
You say RUN. I will run.

衍生出来还有好多动作,比如小鸟飞 Fly like a bird.
青蛙跳Jump like a frog.

难得看到我儿子说英文那么开心,看来真是动静结合最好了..

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我家是男宝,快4岁.给孩子选的学校是70%是英,30%中汉.目前在汉语方面的发育,用老师的话是超过了斑上同龄小朋友(我认为是因为斑上大多是英语小朋友,所以在汉语方面就表现比较优了),在英语方面,孩子的表现老师也是评价不错的,目前可以用单词和简单的句子和美国老师'小朋友沟通.在家英文亲子阅读时,会对没有接触或不了解的单词单独复述出来问是什么意思.但如果在家看DVD时,仍会选择中文.自已对孩子的英文能力的评价是:感兴趣了,觉得学习英文不难(可能在他的眼里英文不是一门学科),听力很好,语感不错.发音纯正.但词汇量有限.
孩子在这一年半的时间里,他在进步,但也碰到了困难.第一年是在托斑,孩子开始在英文日时表现的是上课听不懂,所以总会走开.但老师给了很多耐心,同时也是因为学校的日常生活中也是以英语为主,所以首先听力是没有选择的在进步.那个时候在家如果进行英文亲子阅读的话,他是拒绝的.到了现在,我认为孩子的英文进步还是归功听.听到一定的时候就能听董了,再听到一定时候就开始说了,其实我们学习中文也是这样的.英文儿歌是个很好的媒价,孩子一般是先记旋律,再记歌词..

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