看到一各很好的帖子，在这里推荐一下：

你给孩子什么？
　　By Dorothy Law Nolte

　　批评中长大的孩子，责难他人。
　　敌意中长大的孩子，喜欢吵架。
　　恐惧中长大的孩子，常常忧虑。
　　嘲笑中长大的孩子，个性羞怯。
　　猜忌中长大的孩子，容易妒嫉。
　　羞耻中长大的孩子，自觉有罪。
　　鼓励中长大的孩子，深具自信。
　　宽容中长大的孩子，能够忍耐。
　　称赞中长大的孩子，懂得感恩。
　　认可中长大的孩子，喜欢自己。
　　分享中长大的孩子，慷慨大方。
　　诚信中长大的孩子，理解真理。
　　公正中长大的孩子，极富正义。
　　尊重中长大的孩子，懂得尊敬。
　　信赖中长大的孩子，不但信任他人也信任自己。
　　友善中长大的孩子，不但爱他人也爱自己。

Children Learn What They Live (1998)
by Dorothy Law Nolte (1924 - 2005)

If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live..

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很好的帖子，大家看了顶一下呀！.

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