i made  a lot of mistakes during my last relationship, the worst thing is... i didn't realized after many years

we saw so many negative topics in WW, full of sad and mad stories, got lost in the marriage, lives turned away from the right tracks...looked like twisted ropes...better to question and refresh ourselves now.

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
hug and kiss everyday?
after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?

[ 本帖最后由 混凝土 于 2009-3-4 14:18 编辑 ].

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
Yes

do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
Not everyday... But frequency.

did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
Mmmm... Seldom... mostly we have dinner with whole family.

hug and kiss everyday?
Yes.. except that one on biz trip.

after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
Depends...

did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
Yes

when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
Sure.

your answers are tricky....come on, those were not difficult questions.....

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原帖由 混凝土 于 2009-3-4 16:46 发表
your answers are tricky....come on, those were not difficult questions....

which one? breaking the ice?
depends on who did things wrong....

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
Sometimes.

do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
Seldom.

did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
Seldom.

hug and kiss everyday?
Often, but not everyday.

after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
No one. We usually end the cold war like this  "You, apologize!" "Me? no way.""Hm!"

did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
I'm not sure.

when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
Can take care of baby, do the house work, but will complain as well. "How can you get so much work to do?"

Maybe it's the time for me to refresh myself, .

your sentences are short but funny! both of you have good sense of humour...
  "You, apologize!" "Me? no way.""Hm!".

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原帖由 grant 于 2009-3-4 17:29 发表


which one? breaking the ice?
depends on who did things wrong...

everyone...
please make the sentense longer, show your real feelings!.

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原帖由 混凝土 于 2009-3-4 18:08 发表

everyone...
please make the sentense longer, show your real feelings!

feelings need to feel, not to show...
.

you are using close questions...
so you get simple answer.
.

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
- sometimes
do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
- no, not everyday..
did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
- on the V. Day and  anniversaries
hug and kiss everyday?
- Nope
after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
- him, most of the times
did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
- Nope
when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
- quite

Oh my god! we make a terrible couple!.

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
Yes, we ofter discuss lot's of plans, but most of these plans changed later, just as what we say, changing is always faster then planning.

do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
Almost everyday except one of us travelling on business.

did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
Since we have kids, we go dinner together with kids, but sometime, we have lunch outside without 3rd one.

hug and kiss everyday?
No, i compained yesterday already.

after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
Of cause, he.......

did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
Not yet, keep seeking.........

when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
Sure.

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
Rather inform than discuss

do you save some time and share your feelings everyday?
Yes, I share my feelings and usually I keep speaking all the time

did you ever dinner out only with him/her?
Yes, every weekend. Both are lazy people

hug and kiss everyday?
Sometimes

after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
We would start to talk for other things directly and It seems no quarrel happened before

did you find the recipe to make him/her to love you more?
Just to be myself

when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
Yes for understanding, but difficult for him to take over my job, he don't have expertise for my job..

when you're occupied, can your partner understand and take over your job ?
means if you're busy, can your partner help you?
by the way, you should be lying on the beach, why still show up here???.

after a quarrel, who will break the ice first?
We would start to talk for other things directly and It seems no quarrel happened before

this is a brilliant idea to keep the good relationship!!!

[ 本帖最后由 混凝土 于 2009-3-10 23:56 编辑 ].

do you often discuss about plans for family together?
Yes, we ofter discuss lot's of plans, but most of these plans changed later, just as what we say, changing is always faster then planning.

it doesn't matter how the plan changed after...the point is to discuss together, not just inform him/her..

  That's the point!.

we don't often get a chance to talk so much because he is always busy busy busy. He travels a lot and sometimes on jet lag. i find life is not easy... But i know we get along well...Holiday is the only time we are both strongly expecting now....

men sometimes behave like kids, but it's also attractive, so don't complain....

you're right...life is even harder this year, so enjoy every moment with your husband, and try to make him relax..

nice girl!.