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发表于 2009-12-21 13:43
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1-2-3: Three Steps to Effective Parenting
1-2-3：有效育儿的三步骤
1-2-3 magic will provide you with three steps for effective parenting. Each of the three steps is distinct, manageable and extremely important. The three Parenting steps are also mutually interdependent; in other words, each one depends to some extent on the others for its success. Ignore any of these steps at your own risk.
1-2-3魔术将提供有效育儿的三个步骤。这三个步骤中的每一个都是截然不同的，便于管理并且极为重要的。这三个育儿的步骤也是相互依存的，换句话说，每一个步骤的成功在某种程度上都取决于其他步骤。忽略其中任何一个步骤都会给你带来风险。
Parenting Step 1(Part II and III) involves controlling obnoxious behavior. You will never like or get along well with your children if they are constantly irritating you with their whining,arguing, teasing, badgering, tantrums, yelling and fighting. In 1-2-3 Magic you will learn how to "count" obnoxious behavior, and you will be pleasantly surprised at how effective that simple technique is!
育儿第一步（第二部分和第三部分）谈到如何控制令人不愉快的行为。如果你的孩子不断地用他们的牢骚、争论、戏弄、纠缠、发脾气、叫喊和争吵来激怒你，你绝对不会喜欢和孩子相处，而且也无法好好的相处。在1-2-3魔术中你交学会怎样来“注意”令人讨厌的行为，并且你会惊喜于这些简单的技巧可以多么的有效。
Step 2(Part IV) involves encouraging good behavior. Encouraging good behavior, such as picking up after yourself, going to bed, being courteous and doing homework, takes more effort--for both parent and child--than controlling difficult behavior. You will learn seven simple methods for encouraging positive actions in your kids.
第二步（第四部分）谈到如何鼓励良好的行为。鼓励良好的行为，对父母和孩子双方来说，需要比控制困难的行为更多的努力，例如整理自己的烂摊子、上床睡觉、待人有礼貌和做功课。您将会学到七个简单的方法来鼓励孩子们的积极行动。
Finally, in Step 3(Part IV) you will learn some valuable and not-so-difficult ways of maintaining healthy relationships with your children. Some parents merely need to be reminded of these strategies; other parents have to work hard at them. Paying attention to the quality of your relationship with your children will help you with Step1 and 2, and vice versa.
最后，在第三步（第四部分），您将学到一些有价值的并且不那么难的方法，来维持与你的孩子之间良好的亲子关系。有些家长很少需要用到这些策略，其他的家长不得不在这方面做更多的努力。注意，良好的亲子关系将有助于第一步和第二步，反之亦然。
Let's get going--and good luck!
让我们开始 - 祝你好运！.
