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[品德] 爸爸妈妈新年快乐! 看重钱好不好?反映一个我个人有些忧心的事..

爸爸妈妈新年快乐! 看重钱好不好?反映一个我个人有些忧心的事..

最近感觉孩子的班级极小一部分同学挺看重钱的,交换了新年礼物后还会要回来, 看似可以算同学互助帮忙的事情(不是义务)也要收钱,孩子说她有时候会向同学借点钱有时侯就忘记还了,还说有个别的同学也是这样, 联想到以前听说班级里丢过不只一次钱. 一直感觉她们班同学的攀比心理很良好的,感觉家长素质也都不错,小朋友们在一起开玩笑什么的很开心的,听听有些事情有时候也说女儿他们很抠门,帮助了别人别人有成绩了就想来分一杯羹,我说助人为乐才好呢,付出的过程应该享受,不要求回报,(其实回报会在也许多年后可能发生)...
人的精力有限,一定要抓大的放小的,"贪小便宜吃大亏"是我们一直跟女儿强调的,(你的是你的,我的是我的,亲兄弟明算帐当然是很好的理性的处世方法,但不要想着从别人那里怎么拿点过来..)现在的人太注重眼前利益了,有点担心,但愿孩子们只是好玩而已....

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我家孩子是这样,有些概念还不太知道,上次跟她说俞敏洪的分享精神时,她就问是不是吃中饭自己少吃点分给别人吃?..孩子应该都是好苗, 咱们家长要多灌输和指引和强化..我听到是极个别同学的,有时是搞笑的成分, 就怕在真真假假中把一些不好的小气成长在小苗中了. 努力,先从自己做起!谢谢跟贴...

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谢谢关注, 另分享一浦外家长的贴..

Here Are some Tips that May bring You A Beautuful Life!
It's Up To You!
让生活美好起来的窍门很简单,不妨试试看吧!
Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day and while you walk,smile.
每天走上十分钟到半个小时吧,一边散步一边微笑着。
Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
再每天让自己独自冥想十分钟。
When you wake up in the morning complete the following statement,"My purpose is to...today."
早晨醒来的时候想一想:今天干些什么?
Live with the 3 E's...Energy,Enthusiasm,Empathy,and the 3 F's...Faith,Family,Friends.
热血、热情、热心面对生活,真情、亲情、友情温暖自己。
Spend more time with prople over the age of 70 and under the age of six.
多和老人孩子在一起吧。
Dream more while you are awake.
白天也不妨做做梦。
Try to make at least three people smile each day.
试着让身边人高兴到笑。
Realize that life is school and you are here to learn,pass all your tests.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
要知道人生就是我们的课堂,并要通过所有的考试。功课里的困难都会消融,可学到的会受益终生。
Smile and laugh more.It will keep the energy vampires away.
多笑一笑多想一些开心的事吧,让郁闷鬼滚远。
Life isn't fair,but it's still good.
生活虽不尽公平,但依然美好。
Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
人生苦短,记恨别人是浪费自己的青春。
Don't take yourself so seriously.No one else does.
别对自己太苛刻,没谁会这么傻。
You don't have to win every argument.Agree to disagreements.
你没必要赢得每次争论,真理只是相对的。
Make peace with you past,so it won't mess up the present.
淡然看待过去,别让它弄糟了现在。
Don't compare your life to others'.You have no idea what their journey is all about.
别拿自己的生活去和别人比,鞋子好不好只有脚知道。
Burn the candles,use the nice sheets.Don't save it for aspecial occasion.Today is special.
点起蜡烛,就用那张漂亮的纸写心情吧,不一定非要等到特殊的日子才用,每一天都是大日子。
No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
没谁能让你不开心,除非自己不高兴。
Forgive everyone for everything.
没有什么也没有谁不可以原谅。
What other people think of you is none of your business.
别人怎么看你和你无关。
Time heals almost everything.Give time,time.
时间会修复一切,相信时间。
However good or bad a situation is,it will change.
风水轮回,人人有份。
You job won't take care of you when you are sick.Your friends will.Stay right in touch.
你的工作不在乎你的健康,你的朋友会。立刻来拨个电话吧。
Get rid of anything that isn't useful,beautiful or joyful.
把不快不乐没用的事情丢到脑后吧
The best is yet to come.
最好的就在前方。
No matter how you feel,get up,dress up and show up.
别管此刻怎样,打醒精神抖擞起来。
Do the right thing!
做有益的事。
Call your family often.
有事没事都给家人打个电话。
Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements:"I am thankful for...""Today I accomplished..."
睡前要让心里怀着感恩和满足。
Remember that you are too blessed to be stressed.
我们可能只是缺少一双鞋,有人缺少整只脚。
Enjoy the ride.Remember that this is not Disney World and you certainly don't want a fast pass.Make the most of it and enjoy the ride.
好好活着吧,细细品位,别像个游乐场里的匆匆过客:美好时光还有很多很长.

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