我女儿说，比如有一道题，明明填A词比填B词好得多得多，但是因为A词没有学过，填上去可能就是错的。所以她要很谨慎地考试，这本身是有问题的。作文同样，不是单词的问题，是语句的问题。.

多读+多做练习。首先要多读，因为语感没有的话，多练习也很难记牢。题目变了就容易错。练习不可能囊括所有的题目。.

女儿刚才对我说的：You parents know nothing about us. You parents think that we will take all of your advice and make fewer mistakes and be much smarter than you were. You just never think about our feelings, you think that we will listen to you all the time. Do you think every child is perfect? If it is so, were you so perfect when you were at our age?
We spend more, but enjoy less. We have more knowledge, but less judgement. We love little, but we hate too much. We don't want to face the truth 'cause it's too cruel for us. We want to eat our favorite food, do whatever we want, and travel to places we love. We don't wanna see these piles of homework. If you queue up all the homework we're having now and walk alone the path made by those homework, you'll arrive the moon! Whatever! I don't really care about the scores and tests and everything like that. Life is a chain of moments of enjoyments, not only about survival. And it's not the destination that matters, it's the journey..

其实我打心底里觉得她说得很有道理。但是作为家长，又不能表现出太“支持”。

适应环境？我不知哪里还有很好的环境？补课的传染病已经传遍世界上有中国人的地方。.

因为我女儿身体较弱，所以我对她的要求不是太高，将来只要做一般的工作就可以了，只要她觉得开心。目前能跟上大部队就行，补课兴趣班我都让她参加，但我不是说补课了你就一定要比别人好，补课就是通过现在的资源多学一点打好基础。或者说，是我们家长没时间回答她的学业问题，请课外老师来回答。
她读书在我们家的孩子里算不咋样的，这个我早就看出来了。读书好的人不是她这样想法那么多的。.